Hi friends! 

So I know that personal moodboards can be seen as unnecessary, a waste of time and even sometimes a little bougie, but I sincerely enjoy making them because I'm super big on visuals that can inspire you to keep going. Who doesn't love to curate a board of images and words that reflect what you want in your life for a period of time or for forever?! This girl is all for it and so I wanted to share what I put together for another dumpster fire of a year - 2021. I like to think it's me developing my "brand" and conveys what my current mood is. I decided to focus on one magazine this time around, so all the images and text are from the Winter 2021 edition of "Artful Living", which is based here in Minnesota and is essentially a luxe "moodboard" for a boutique lifestyle. It was serendipitous, as it arrived right when I wanted to make something and so I dove in and found some great inspiration.

When you're flipping through your visual source, the magic begins to happen. For me, I start to visualize what I want the board to encompass for an entire month or a full year and pull things out immediately when I see them. Turn on some music to really get the creative energy going and then start cutting up exactly what you want, which then turns into figuring out the exact layout. The overall mood for this one was "to being alive and thriving" so I had to turn on this song to really get the ~vibes~ going. Eventually I really got into it and the overall layout began to take form, with many a revision here and there, but it only took me about an hour to really be satisfied with the end result. It's by no means perfect but I feel like that sums up what I expect this year to be like.

Dream.

Creativity.

Living. 

The Great Escape

Dwell in Beauty. 

 

I find this so relaxing to do and I highly recommend putting together your own. It gets you to put things in perspective and there's some clarity in that for me. So tell me! What does your moodboard look like?


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1. Making my voice heard

You ever realize that you're sick of not voicing your opinion? Letting people talk over you and not adding anything to the conversation. Well, this year I want to not be afraid to say what I'm feeling about a viewpoint, situation or what is going to be best for me in the long run. I pride myself on being a really good listener when it comes to having a conversation with friends, family and even strangers, but I want to remind myself that I can have a solid train of thought and eloquently voice it without the fear of being judged. I think the biggest thing that holds me back is the response of the other person in the conversation, not knowing induces high anxiety for me. It is an innate fear of them rejecting me and that makes my fight or flight response kick in, so I'm aiming to really work on getting out of my head while in a conversation with someone and to simply exist in the moment. How liberating that sounds.

2. Having a regular sleep schedule

2020 provided all of us with PLENTY, but I know I'm not alone in the fact that a small aspect of the dumpster fire of the year was simply having an irregular sleep routine. For me when I say irregular.. I mean staying up for 24 hours one to two times a week or sometimes going to bed at 3am and not getting up until 4pm. Who knew that could be bad for you? Hah. I've had periods of time when my sleep schedule gets messed up but damn, it's really bad right now. My body is tired, all the time. I'd very much like to go back to getting 6-7 hours of solid sleep and wake up feeling refreshed and productive for the day. So here's to going to bed at 11pm or midnight and waking up around 7am, which is super attainable for me now because I have someone to do that with. 😁

3. Drinking more water

All I do is drink Diet Pepsi and coffee. It's an endless cycle, with some water here and there. For 2021 though, I want to become a water fountain and just continuously drink and drink until I become the most hydrated human being in existence. Seriously though, I need to drink at least 5-6 glasses a day because I'm severely lacking right now. The biggest thing I want to get out of this is that I'm hoping it will help improve my mood, skin and body in general. I bought a couple water bottles to help out, so cross your fingers for me!

4. Opening a savings account
 
I am horrible with money, truly. Being unemployed for the past two years has been pretty difficult to try and improve that statement, however, you'll catch me every day working on finding a new job and I only wish I could be paid for how many hours I've spent on sending in my resume. Why is money so stressful too? If there is one thing I actually hate, it's that we rely so much on money and how it encompasses our adult life until you die. Before this year ends though, I aim to open a savings account and start putting aside funds that will help me in the future when I'm older and need to rely solely on myself to simply survive.

5. Continuing to educate myself

Educating yourself is a lifelong process and learning how to be anti-racist is a big part of that. I believe that no one is inherently racist but that they're taught to be and it's their decision to live in that hate or to branch away and realize that we're all human beings and that we should live in love. It's also way too easy for people to show support for a movement and then go on with their lives, which we see time and time again. However after what happened in June, it's been a stark reminder that every day I have to show up (as well as the people around me) and I should be prepared for tough conversations and not shrink away from something that may make me feel 'uncomfortable.' I came across this newsletter called "Anti-Racism Daily" that sends daily actions to 'dismantle white supremacy' and I highly recommend signing up for it as well. Let's keep fighting and showing up for the people that need it the most and not step over the people that need to be heard. Listen, learn and love. 

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Let's be honest, this year has not been "it" for absolutely anyone! The mood to celebrate anything this holiday season is very much out of my own frame of mind. I really just want to be able to survive and make sure everyone around me is doing okay for the rest of this year. I do feel kind-of gross putting together a gift guide right now, especially since money is going to be tight for so many people (THANKS GOVERNMENT) and there are many more important things to be saving for. That being said, I decided I wanted to do something that can hopefully help businesses that I've been following for awhile and essentially be the way of giving back. Maybe this can also put a smile on your face and give you something to look forward to in regards to the holidays. I always find joy in buying something special for a loved one. 


This years Mostly Lisa Gift Guide is going to be all about shopping small, which is obviously extremely important every year, but just a little bit more so for 2020! So here is the only gift guide I'll be doing featuring 17 ideas from small businesses that I've had my eye on for awhile, shops that are local to MN, gifts in various price ranges and what's even more amazing? I'm pretty sure all of these are owned by women! Please do take the time to click each link (none of these are sponsored, I just think they're really neat) and take a look at their websites. I hope you can find something that will fit the people on your list, or something that may catch your own eye! Let me know what your favorite small shops are in the comments below. Love you all!


1. 'Versailles' Earrings - Serendipitous Project: $120

Serendipitous Project provides affordable and sustainable alternatives for trendy jewelry. I've loved seeing this brand grow over the past several months. All the designs are made with love by the owner - Sydney - and I have these gorgeous earrings on own list this year.



Brittany is one of the sweetest, insanely talented and overall kind human beings I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. Bonding over our love astrology and all things zodiac, I've truly enjoyed being able to see her one-woman small business be a little bit of a hidden gem here in the Twin Cities. All her products are handmade and infused with good intentions, so I highly recommend checking her website out for affordable products that are in-tune with the universe. I especially love this Zodiac print that features gold foil.

 
Millie is a illustrator and textile artist based in England and she creates these beautiful works of art with various inspiration from folk art and mythology. This is a bit on the pricier side, however, you'd be getting something that is one-of-a-kind!


 
A modern take on the classic art of pressing flowers to create beautiful, one of a kind timeless pieces. This process is done by St. Paul, MN native - Caitlin - and she loves to bring life to each leaf or flower used. Love this idea!

Truly, truly obsessed with this brand! Side Dimes combines art that sees through cultural norms and defines pop culture in society. These are so unique and will look great in any home.



Look cute, be safe and support a fantastic artist! Extremely relevant during these times.

7. Bakery Sampler - Cookie Cart: $12/dozen

This one absolutely means the most to me on this list, especially since it's based her in MN. Started in 1988, Cookie Cart provides teens ages 15 to 18 with lasting and meaningful work,life and leadership skills through employment and training in urban nonprofit bakeries. I truly recommend this for anyone on your list.

8.  Saint Paul Neighborhoods Map Print - Art by Aleisha: $38

Love these prints made by Aleisha Nelson that feature neighborhoods all around the world. This one is my favorite, mostly because it's of my own neighborhood!

9. Handmade Jane Austen Teapot - The Jane Austen Centre: $89

This glazed ceramic Jane Austen Teapot features a stack of Jane Austen novels, topped with a lid designed to replicate a teacup and saucer (complete with silver spoon!) Buying anything from this historic landmark will help keep it open, which has been difficult this year for them, and retain a team of tour guides. Plus, how cute is this item?!

10. Cauldron Wax Melter Box - The Curiosity Society: $33

A beautiful glossy black cauldron oil or wax burner and two snap bars of wax melts in Moon Witch and Snow Witch perfumes that will be perfect for any home owner!

11. Bliss+  CBD Oil 1500mg - BLNCD Naturals: $80

A blend formulated to boost energy, increase mental focus and clarity and to uplift your mood – naturally. BLNCD Naturals creates award-winning, premium-quality beauty and wellness products inspired by the therapeutic properties of plant-based ingredients, including CBD. This will definitely help with any stress during this time of year, so sign me up!

12. Moonlit Walk Gift Bundle - Skippy Cotton: $60 

A beautiful gift bundle to scent your home, bedroom and will give you the opportunity to pamper yourself. This gift includes the following:- 1 Skippy Cotton Black Lavender Moon Man- 1 Thistle Balsam Dumpling- 1 Sacred Sage Fizzy Bath Bomb- 1 handmade Bullion Star patch- 1 Peppermint/Sage Bundle.

13.  Home for Christmas Candle - Howard Soap Co.: $24

Home For Christmas is a holiday + winter favorite. Top notes of icy peppermint with holly berry, a hint of spice and grounding balsam. All candles are handpoured in truly small batches with care using 100% soy wax (zero paraffin), cotton wick, always phthalate free high quality fragrance and cotton wick.

14. F A C E F O U N D R I É Gift Card: $50-$200

Need a facial? Located in Minnesota? Then a gift card to Face Foundrie may be a perfect gift or stocking stuffer! This salon is the perfect place to have a unique experience with a catered menu of services that will fit your busy lifestyle!

15. Quarentine Sticker Sheet - Sharee Miller: $7

Cute self-care, quarantine inspired sticker set. Decorate your planner, notebooks, or anything you want to stick a sticker on!

16. Coffee + Tea Create - Minny & Paul: $148

For the coffee and tea lovers in your life! Minny & Paul was established in 2016 with the vision to elevate gift-giving. Truly such a lovely company that cares about their customers and the brands they work with. Highly recommend!

17.  Floral Bouquet - Moody Hues Floral: $50-$100

I simply love and adore Moody Hues Floral. Owned by two BFFS, they KNOW flowers and offer a wide range of beautiful bouquets that can fit your budget! Head to their website for their contact form and their IG always showcases ideas you can shop for.

 
 
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Happy Halloween, babes! What a spooky time to celebrate, am I right? While I have no plans to go out I will be staying in and watching a few movies, possibly watching the Julien podcast on twitch, trying not to think about someone and having a few drinks. I hope everyone stays safe this year, try and do Halloween at home and spoil yourself with as much candy as you want!

For this edition of My Style File, I wanted to set the mood and share a look that made me feel sexy, confident and like I could just go dancing in the dark. A slit on the left side of the dress makes for a tiny peek of leg that would sure be fun to wrap around another. This off-the-shoulder maxi dress comes from Eloquii, however, since it was about 40 degrees when we took these photos, I decided to put a black J.Crew turtleneck underneath to keep warm. I completed the look with a pair of knee-high boots from torrid. While this seems like a normal outfit, it's something I wouldn't usually put together, so I loved stepping outside of my comfort zone in terms of my personal style. Also, because I haven't worn ANYTHING this nice in about 7 months, lol.

Can I just say how beautiful this cemetery is? It's called Lakewood Cemetery and it has to be one of the biggest locations here in Minnesota. They were extremely kind in letting my photographer and I come in and take a few shots before they closed, being as respectful as we could be. I have several family members that are buried there, so it always feels nice to come and visit even if it's not to directly visit their grave.

 Again, I hope you all have a great Halloween weekend. Let me know what you'll be doing in the comments below!

 Side note: GO VOTE!

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Well, the white shores have peacefully called Mr. Frodo home to a far green country filled with so many treats, his favorite squeaky toys, the sun beating on his soft fur and a huge piece of my heart. This dog came into my life 16 years ago and it was at a time I didn’t know I would need him the most. His name attributed to one of my favorite characters to which he slowly became my watching buddy during the holidays when I’d watch the trilogy. There are so many memories but those lazy, quiet moments mean the most to me. He was my best friend, the love between us was unconditional and he always knew when I was feeling down and when to give me those sloppy kisses. He did the same for the rest of my family and anyone he had the chance to meet. I hope he has many more adventures crossing the rainbow bridge and finds a new fellowship to be a part of. I will always love you, bubba. Thank you for making my life better. 🐾

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We're right in the midst of fall and while I haven't necessarily needed to wear any makeup or buy new products because of quarantine, I wanted to touch on a few products that I've been using since March and that have easily transitioned into this new season. One thing I love about beauty products is the fact that they can do such a transition and you don't have to feel like you're wasting the products because you purchased it at a certain time. Here are five products that I'll be using this fall and more than likely the rest of this dumpster fire of a year. At least my skin will look (and smell) good! What are you using this autumn?

1. Drunk Elephant C-Firma™ Vitamin C Day Serum: ($80) - This product has been great to use in my daily morning routine. I usually put it on as my second step as to make sure it really blends well into my skin. There is a scent to this but it does go away for me after I put on my moisturizer. The price is a bit hefty, but I've had it for about a month and half and have used it almost every single day. I particularly like using this on my neck and have noticed a difference in how loose my "double chin" is. Highly recommend!

 


2. First Aid Beauty Cleanser: ($32) - I've started using this product as my first step in my morning skincare routine! After being recommended by a Sephora employee to use it on my neck/chin after getting a wax, I haven't looked back. It's super easy to apply and has a soft scent, not at all overwhelming, and a little goes a long way. 

3. Yves Saint Laurent Perfume Mon Paris: ($100) - An investment to add to your collection, that's for sure, but I definitely believe it's worth it. Another product where a little can go a long way and it'll be worth having it be in certain sections on your skin. This scent makes me feel romantic, sexy and confident. The packaging doesn't hurt either. 


4. Urban Decay All Nighter Setting Spray: ($33): This product has been in my collection for a few years. It's just a necessity to have, to be honest. Gives you smoother looking skin as well as locks in your makeup all day long. You must get it!

5. Colourpop Cosmetics Pressed Powder Shadows ($7): I love finding a good deal, who doesn't? So I was so excited to find these pressed powders from Colourpop when shopping in Ulta a few months ago. They are so affordable and pack a lot of punch when it comes to pigmentation and longevity of wear.

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We can all agree this fall is going to be very different than what we've experienced previously, right? Everything feels delayed and I'm mentally still in winter mode from March, so it's insane that it's already the third week of September. Seriously though, what is time? Can someone tell me? While I've decorated my apartment to feel a tiny inch of excitement for the new season upon us, especially Halloween, it's definitely muted than years past. That being said, I'm hoping to get out on walks and see the color changing leaves around my neighborhood, grab a Salted Caramel Mocha from Starbucks, eat those pumpkin Reese's Peanut Butter Cups and hopefully see some friends while social distancing. So there's definitely some silver lining in that we have some more time on our hands to truly prepare for the changing of so many various things! 

Even though we're not doing a whole lot this year, I still wanted to share some things that are getting me in the mood for autumn and I hope they will for you too. Let me know in the comments below what is on your fall shopping list.

Colorblocked Dress

 Long Tailored Blazer

 

Rivulets Quilt

 

 
 
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 a playlist for when you need a boost of serotonin and you want to sing out loud in your pajamas to songs you've memorized since they first graced your eardrums. hold that pretend microphone and belt your heart out to some happy songs that can personally turn around my mood, even if just for a few minutes, and make me feel like I'm holding a concert for my neighbors. turn your speakers up and sing with me! fyi, I'll be adding songs to this list whenever I come across one that puts a smile on my face. feel free to add to it and let me know which songs you're listening to right now! 



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